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FAMILY LIFE & RELATIONSHIPS
 
Your Toddler's Relationships with Family & Friends
If you drew a circle to represent your toddler’s world at the beginning of this year, you would have to place her right in the middle. She is at the center and all others revolve around her. She knows other people exist, especially her parents and other close family members, but she does not have any real concept of them as separate people. As far as she is concerned, they think and feel the same as she does. Their purpose is to entertain her and to meet her physical and emotional needs...
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How to Build a Healthy Relationship With Your Stepchild
Parenting holds a great many challenges. Little is more challenging than the role of Christian stepparent. In short, the stepparent joins the biological parent in raising his or her child, but does so initially without a clear bond with the child. Parental authority is based on the depth of relationship between adult and child. The stepparent-stepchild relationship is weak due to little emotional connection and only a brief shared history (developed while the adults were courting), making the stepparent's role very difficult and frustrating...
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10 Guiding Principles: Strategies to Change Your Teen's Thinking and Preempt Crises
Today's teens face overwhelming issues – peer pressure, widespread instances of substance abuse, concerns about sexuality, the academic stress of high school, the risks and freedom of driving and the worry about getting into a good college...
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Nine Steps to More Effective Parenting
Raising children is one of the toughest and most fulfilling jobs in the world - and the one for which you may feel the least prepared. Here are some ways to tackle your child-rearing responsibilities that will help you feel more fulfilled as a parent, and enjoy your children... more [Kids Health]
 
Blissful Blending Gone Sour?
I have a big problem. I was married for four years and divorced three years ago. I have just remarried a man who has two children, ages eight and four, from a previous marriage. I have a daughter who is now seven. At first our blended life was blissful, but... more [Parent Soup]
 
Is divorce always damaging to the kids?
A friend of mine is miserable in his marriage. He and his wife hate each other and have tried to work through it. They are afraid of the damage a divorce would do to their... more [Parent Place]
 
Children and Divorce
One out of every two marriages today ends in divorce and many divorcing families include children. Parents who are getting a divorce are frequently worried about the effect... more [AACAP]
Ten ways to save big on family travel
Nothing takes a bite out of your travel budget like last-minute airline tickets and hotel bills. Try to choose travel dates at least two months ahead of time (three's even better)... more [Baby Center]
Grandparents Raising Grandchildren
Grandparents are an important resource for both parents and children. They routinely provide child care, financial assistance and emotional support. Occasionally they are called... more [AACAP]
Dads: How to Get Involved
As a proud papa, you want to do everything you can to be involved in your child's life. But during those bleary early weeks, when your baby is nursing around the clock, it can be hard to
... more [Baby Center]
Talking to Your Kids About Sex
Talking to your children about love, intimacy, and sex is an important part of parenting. Parents can be very helpful by creating a comfortable atmosphere in which to talk to their children... more [AACAP]
10 Common Mistakes Parents Make
Think you're a pretty good parent? Chances are, you're right. But many of us make well-intentioned mistakes in many areas of our lives--including raising children. No parent... more [Parenthood]
Step Family Problems
With the high incidence of divorce and changing patterns of families in the United States, there are increasing numbers of stepfamilies. New stepfamilies face many challenges... more [AACAP]
Children and Family Moves
Moving to a new community may be one of the most stress-producing experiences a family faces. Frequent moves or even a single move can be especially hard on children and... more [Parent Soup]
13 Timesaving Tips for Busy Moms
We've all wished for just a little more time in our busy schedules –- time to spend with the kids, time to spend with our friends and a little more time for ourselves. There's still no... more [Parent Soup]
40 Mom-Tested Tips for Balancing Work and Family
Wondering how to create a better morning routine, stay involved in your child's life while you're at work or make the most of your evenings at home? Get tried-and-true advice on... more [Parent Soup]
Talking with Kids About Mental Illness
Kids are naturally curious and have questions about mental illnesses. Understanding mental illnesses can be challenging for adults as well as for children. Myths, confusion, and misinformation... more [AACAP]
Talking with Kids About Terrorism and War
In today's world, parents are faced with the challenge of explaining violence, terrorism and war to children. Although difficult, these conversations are extremely important... more [AACAP]
Talking with Kids About Violence
Raising a child is one of the most gratifying jobs you'll ever have and one of the toughest. Try as you might to be the best parent you can, our complex world challenges you every day... more [Talking With Kids]
Talking with Kids About HIV and AIDS
As upsetting and confusing as it can be to bring up the subject of AIDS with young children, it's essential to do so. By the time they reach third grade, research shows that as many as... more [Talking With Kids]
Talking with Kids About Sex and Relationships
Most parents want to do their best in talking with their kids about sex and sexuality, but we're often not sure how to begin. Here's our advice: Studies show that kids who feel... more [Talking With Kids]
Talking with Kids About Alcohol and Drugs
The issue of drugs can be very confusing to young children. If drugs are so dangerous, then why is the family medicine cabinet full of them? And why do TV, movies, music and advertising... more [Talking With Kids]
Getting Along Together
Childhood is a time for children to learn about the world-and that includes learning how to get along with others. Parents play a crucial role in helping children figure out... more [The Whole Child]
How to Help Your Child Deal With Death
When Jennifer T.'s grandfather died unexpectedly, the 4-year-old bombarded her grief-stricken parents with questions: "What did they put Poppa into to bury him? Is he lying down or... more [Kids Health]
How to Talk to Your Child About the News
Children learn about the world through a variety of sources, including parents, teachers, friends, and the media. Although news gleaned from television, radio, or the Internet can be a positive... more [Kids Health]
Talking to Your Child About Menstruation
Many women have embarrassing or even funny memories of learning about menstruation: some parents never mentioned it back then, whereas others handed their daughters a book and... more [Kids Health]
Talking to Your Child About Puberty
Today, kids are exposed to so much information about sex and relationships on TV and the Internet that by the time they approach puberty, they may be familiar with some advanced... more [Kids Health]
Talking to Your Child About Sexual Abuse
Childhood should be about sweetness and light, not gloom and doom. So why broach the subject of something as awful as sexual abuse with your child? Why bring it up if it may never happen? Is it... more [Kids Health]
Talking to Your Child About Drugs
If you think you don't need to discuss drug use with your kids, you're not alone: according to a recent survey from the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University... more [Kids Health]
Talking to Your Child About Smoking and Smokeless Tobacco
Advertisers spend billions of dollars each year trying to get children to smoke. Talking to your kids honestly, clearly, and convincingly about the dangers of tobacco and nicotine addiction is an... more [Kids Health]
An Only Child Is Aggressive With Other Children at School
My son is 6 and an only child. We have always taught him that hitting does not solve a problem and to use words instead. Recently his teacher expressed that he was becoming more aggressive... more [Parenthood]
Arguing and Back-Talk
I know my kid's going to grow up to be a lawyer! He argues whenever he's asked to do something. He debates his rights when he's asked to stop doing something. He pleads his case when I... more [Children Today]
Dealing with Stealing
"When my 5-year-old son came home from school with change clinking in his pockets, I knew he was up to something," says Claude, father of Max. "My wife and I confronted him, and after..." more [Children Today]
Dealing With Child Misbehavior
It’s 10:10 and thirteen-year-old Megan is still on the telephone. The rule is, there will be no telephone conversations after 10 o’clock. Mother sticks her head into Megan’s room... more [Parenthood]
Disciplining Your Child
How do you keep a 1-year-old from heading toward the VCR? What should you do when your preschooler throws a fit? How can you get your adolescent to respect your authority? Approaches... more [Kids Health]
3 Steps to Clear Communication with Your Kids
Ever wonder what happens when your young children respond in unexpected ways to the words you say? It's because the words they hear differ from the emotional messages they receive at... more [Parents Talk]
Helping Children Tackle the Tough Questions of War
Kids ask a lot of tough questions, none tougher than those about acts of violence, terrorism and war. As parents continue to grapple with their own fears, anger and sadness about the... more [Parenthood]
Stay-At-Home Moms and Dads
Good old-fashioned family values may not be dead. They've just got a new gender twist. According to an online poll of... more [Parent Soup]
Teaching Your Children to Resolve Their Own Conflicts
One of the most commonly asked questions I get from parents is "How do I deal with sibling rivalry?" Most problems between siblings do not involve rivalry. They involve conflict... more [Parenthood]
Getting Involved at Your Child's School
Whether your child is just starting kindergarten, entering the final year of high school, or somewhere in between, there are many good reasons and opportunities for you to volunteer... more [Kids Health]
Household Chores: The Do's and Don'ts of Involving Your Kid
With all the demands of single parenting there is often less time to devote to household chores. Don't fret -- children can play an important part in creating a home that runs smoothly... more [Parents Place]
Helping Siblings Accept a New Baby
Having a new baby is one of the most rewarding experiences in life. For a young sibling, however, a new addition to the family may not be entirely welcome. In fact, most children will be... more [Parenthood]
10 Tips for Talking with Your Kids About Tough Issues
Raising a child is probably the most gratifying job any of us will ever have -- and one of the toughest. In large part, that's because times have changed. We live in an... more [Parenthood]
Ten Reasons to Sleep Next to Your Child at Night
1. Family co-sleeping takes full advantage of the ease of breastfeeding, as there is no need to go to another room to get the child. A breastfeeding mother in a "family bed" can easily... more [Parenthood]
Family Bed: An Evolutionary Approach to Family Sleep
On the first night after my daughter's birth, I rested soundly with her nestled beside me in my narrow hospital bunk. Until I was awakened by the nurse on the overnight shift; she waved... more [Breastfeeding]
 

与诸子登岘山

作者: 孟浩然

人事有代谢①
往来成古今。
江山留胜迹②,
我辈复登临。
水落鱼梁③浅,
天寒梦泽深。
羊公碑尚在,
读罢泪沾巾。
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[注释]

①代谢
交替,轮换。
②胜迹
指上述堕泪碑。
③鱼梁
鱼梁洲,其地也在襄阳。
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[简析]

诗意在吊古感今,开首二句揭题。第三句的“江山胜迹”照应“人事代谢”;第四句的“我辈登临”照应“往来古今”极为粘合;五、六两句写登临所见;最后二句扣实,真有“千里来龙,到此结穴”之妙。
诗的前半具有一定的哲理性,后半描写景物,富有形象,充满激情。语言通俗易懂,感情真挚动人。
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[诗人简析]

孟浩然:(689— 740),字浩然,襄州襄阳(今湖北襄樊)人。早年隐居鹿门山,四十岁入长安应进士考落第,失意东归,自洛阳东游吴 越,即所谓“山水寻吴越,风尘厌洛京”。张九龄出镇荆州,引为从事,后病疽卒。他是不甘隐沦而以隐沦终老的诗人。其诗多写山水田园的幽清境界,却不时流露出一种失意情绪,所以诗虽冲淡而有壮逸之气,为当世诗坛所推崇。
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